What are the 10 Brutal Lies Men Believe Today...

Here are the main points from the video:

• Be careful of the lie that you should just be yourself.
• Marriage is not a good idea for men anymore.
• The idea that moving abroad will solve your problems is misleading.
• There is no such thing as a perfect "good girl."
• The notion that you are a victim is harmful.
• Being in shape matters significantly for men.

What's up, my brothers? So I want to do a video for the guys, for the boys, and give you a little bit of insight on 10 very, very common lies that are most likely in your blind spots for a lot of you that you should not be believing at this time in history.

The first one is just be yourself. I think that this is probably one of the biggest lies that guys subscribe to, especially the softer, weaker, less awakened guys in this day and age where they've been told through a function of usually single-parent households, sometimes culture, marketing, religion—it doesn't matter what it is—but you're essentially enough, like you're just fine the way that you are. You don't need to be more. Just be yourself.

Number two, and this one blows me away, is that marriage is still a good idea for men. The amount of guys that still have a priority on their agenda in life to find a wife and get married as a goal, as an accomplishment, is essentially the peak of Maslow's hierarchy of all your needs. So subscribing to just get a wife is not a good idea.

I'm not saying don’t get involved with women. I'm not saying don’t invite a woman into your life. I'm not saying don’t have children. What I'm saying is, marriage is not a good idea for men anymore. The entire point of marriage throughout the entirety of modern history was the acquisition of in-laws.

That's really what it boiled down to. You didn't have everything available in your network, so you needed law enforcement, you needed schooling, you needed medical care. People would obviously blend families, marry, acquire in-laws, and they would be able to serve, protect, and raise children together.

Now today, they try to make it all about romantic love. Just love her, just bro, just love her more. Learn her love language. You know, if she's not interested in you or if she's not intimate with you, why don't you know her love language? You see that pop up all the time in these free Facebook groups and these discussion boards, and it's like these guys have no idea what they're talking about at all.

The third lie, which I hear a lot, is just be a passport bro. Just grab a passport, move to another country, and all your problems will be solved. And that's really not true. The way the narrative usually goes is you live in the West, the West is in decline, the fabric of society is crumbling. Women in the West are no good, they're no longer feminine, they're too feminist, blah, blah, blah.

And they'll say, go get a passport and go to Asia, go to Latin America, Colombia, go to Eastern Europe, one of these places. And sure, the women are more feminine, they're way less tattooed. They've generally got culinary skills. They leave their hair long, they do their makeup all the time. But they're still women. Women are hypergamous around the world.

What women want is the best deal that they can possibly get. It's not like they're going to be more agreeable in Colombia or more agreeable in the Philippines or Thailand. Sure, the cost of them will be lower. Sure, the women might be more attractive, but you still need to understand the fundamental basics of attraction. Women, what drives them, and do better vast majority of the time will learn.

The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. It's greener where you water and fertilize, where you take care of it.

All right, let's go to number four, which is the good girl. A lot of guys will believe this notion that there's a good girl out there. There are good girls out there. And you know what? There are some bad girls. There's some pretty terrific ones, too.

There’s either bad girls or there's, I'm going to do this in quotations, good girls that haven't been caught yet because of bad choices that they've made. Women would do a lot better today if they ran decisions through the filter of, "would this disappoint my father?" But guys, you have to understand that women are just women.

There’s no perfect angels out there. Women all have the capability to break your heart and step out on you and betray you.

No amount of being nice to them or being kind to them or a shoulder to cry on is going to prevent that. The same gal in the library that might look cute and innocent is the same gal that, when she was 22 years old, was at a foam cannon party and, you know, whatever led to one thing after that was the result of the problems or baggage that she might be carrying around.

So just be very, very careful with the good girl idea that there's all these good girls out there.

The fifth one, which grinds my gears to no end, is that you are a victim. They love telling guys today that you are a victim. They convince a lot of dudes out there that you are victims and that you deserve more and that people owe you something. Everything that came your way that you did not like, for the vast majority of you out there, with some small exceptions, happened because you made some bad choices.

It happened because you didn't do the right thing, you didn’t do the work.

Number six, let's talk about being in shape and that it doesn’t matter. They’ll tell a lot of people out there, "oh, people should just accept you for who you are. It doesn't matter what size you are; you're beautiful at any size," blah, blah, blah.

That might work for some women, but there are a load of 20-something-year-old virgins out there that want to be with women, that want to be intimate with them, that want to have a girlfriend or build a family. And they're not getting any response from women whatsoever because they haven't looked after their physical appearance.

They haven't created the optics of strength and masculinity and competence and that V-taper, the broad shoulders and a narrow waist. They’re sitting around in an overweight body, inflamed skin disorders, knee disorders, diabetic, carrying around far, far too much body weight, wondering why they’re not getting what they want in life.

And at the end of the day, there are certain people out there that can get away with being obese, right? There's lots of women out there that have guys that will chase them. It matters still for women, but not to the same degree.

For guys, you cannot be out of shape. You just can't let yourself go. You can't carry around unnecessary body weight; you can't let yourself be shaped like a pair if you want to be respectable.

When you enter a room and you're in good shape and you're wearing properly fitted clothes, your shoulders are broad, your back is straight, your chest is out, and you don’t have a belly. You have a nice V-taper. People notice, men will notice you and women will notice you. Men will look at you and think, "I want to be like that guy." Women will look at you and be like, "I want to be with that guy." Do you understand?

Let's go to number seven, which is you can be an introvert and you do not need a network. I'm going to say this again. I've said this many, many times on my channel and podcast interviews: Your network is your net worth.

If you're a guy that thinks that you can be introverted or create a network online playing video games, building a guild or a Discord community or something like that, those might be your friends online, but they’re not your friends in real life. They’re not in your vicinity.

They aren’t going to be by your side if the shit hits the fan when the zombie apocalypse comes or the aliens invade or the meteor hits the earth and there’s a reset. They are not going to be around.

Throughout history, men have always relied on other men. The way of men, as they say, is the way of the gang. Men need to form a strong, cohesive band of brothers. A tribe where we hold each other accountable, where we test each other.

By the way, the kind of guys that you want to avoid and not have in your inner circle are the ones that are always friendly to your face but then talk shit behind your back to other people.

Let's go to number eight. We're going to talk about combat and the belief that you don't need to learn how to fight. "Oh, you're safe today; you've got the military, they'll protect you, you've got the police, they'll protect you."

I’m going to tell you right now, that is an incredibly bad notion, a belief to carry around in life. I'm not saying that you need to go around beating the crap out of people or you need to be violent, but as a man, you need to have the capacity for violence.

It is always better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war. Do you understand?

Let's go to number nine. We'll talk about money not mattering. I don't know how many times I've heard this. "Oh, money doesn't matter. There's only so much money out there; you can't get it. All the richer people, all the rich people have accumulated it, and they're all bad and they're not gonna share it."

They acquired it through nefarious means, blah, blah, blah. Simply not true. Money is a measurement of the amount of value that you've created in life.

The more value you create in life, the more problems you solve, the wealthier and more money you will accumulate. That’s all it is. It’s just evidence that you’ve done something of some significance in your life. Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally.

Men are only loved under the condition that they provide something of value to their family and to the world around them. If you are not in that position, you have to understand that you have to put yourself in a position.

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