印度单身男士的真实需求揭秘

• This video explores the desires and expectations of Indian men regarding women, particularly those who are single.
• A survey was conducted with input from 16 to 17 participants sharing their honest opinions.
• The resulting list contains 37 specific requirements that these men have for potential partners.
• The insights are sometimes humorous and thought-provoking, revealing societal norms and personal preferences.
• The list encourages discussion on gender roles and expectations in relationships.

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[Music] All right here's a billion dollar trillion dollar question. Okay, trillion dollar question: What do our Indian men Secret want? The ones who are single, what do they want out of a woman?

In order to get this answer, I decided to speak to my targets. I spoke to 30 people in my WhatsApp groups, multiple groups, Facebook groups, and whatever. It turned out to be harder than I thought. Finally, around 16 to 17 people agreed, and I assured them that I wouldn't reveal their names or identities.

I just wanted their opinions on an Excel sheet. I told them, “See listen, don’t give me the usual stuff like, ‘I want a good-hearted girl’ or ‘I want a girl who loves me.’ No! I want you to be hardcore, explicit, dirty! Tell me the stuff that you are afraid to tell others.”

After nearly 8 to 9 days, I managed to make a list of 37 things our Indian men want. Now mind you, it's not all from one man. This list has layers; some were repeated over and over again, while some were just one-off.

So, what are the Indian requirements that our Indian men have when looking for a woman that they don’t tell anyone? It’s like shash hashash!

The first one, which was the most popular, is they want a virgin. Fresh meat, halal! They do not want a used product; they want fresh product—fresh meat, fresh fish, fresh eggs, fresh wife.

I had a nice time asking them, “So how will you check for virginity?” They said, “Sir, there are ways! We will privately go to the clinic to check.” Some of them were even afraid to ask their potential brides. They told me, "I don’t know, but I discussed this with my parents, especially my father." He said, “Yeah beta, it’s very important because if a girl has been touched by others, she will always want more. Only your sausage she should like!”

I still laugh at this. It was pretty funny and somewhat explicit. They shared, “I will straight away ask her. We’ll go for a check-up, checking for STDs. You also check privately, I’ll ask the doctor.” There were others who were afraid to ask their potential wives, so they got their parents involved.

So, the first and foremost requirement was virginity.

The second one was quite nice. I want my partner to have nice breasts! Some called it “chest.” So I innocently asked, “Do you have a size in mind?” They said, “It should be a little bigger than my hand.” One even described it as, “If you hold both your hands, one at the top and one at the bottom, think you’re holding a ball.”

It’s amusing how they highlighted the importance of breasts for various reasons! For instance, “After we get married, how will she feed the baby if there’s no milk?” Some thought there was milk there for sure.

The third requirement was that she should be good in communication. They emphasized the importance of knowing how to speak well in English as a status symbol, along with their local language. Additionally, if she spoke other languages, that would be a plus.

The fourth point was that the girl should be from a good family. They defined a good family based on societal norms, decent house, decent car, and a reputation for being well-regarded in their community.

For the fifth requirement, it seems they want dowry. I asked, “Why do you want that?” They replied, “It’s a prestige issue. If she doesn’t have anything, it looks bad.” It seems dowry isn’t just cash; it should come with gold and valuable items. Some mentioned the necessity of giving back something for the expenses their family incurred for them.

Moving on, the sixth requirement was that she should give birth to a boy. I asked them how they ensure that. They said, “We’ll consult the doctor, check the best timings.”

The seventh requirement was that the girl should be well-educated. A reputable degree is essential, and that’s linked to prestige.

For the eighth, they mentioned that the girl should sacrifice her career for family. If she goes to work, they feared she might flirt with colleagues or her boss.

They wanted a partner who would listen to their parents and be obedient. They expected their future wives to be completely submissive, as one of them said, “I want a wife who listens to everything I say.”

The list goes on!

They wanted to avoid any contact with male friends, expecting their partner to dress modestly and to be a homemaker, taking care of the household and cooking.

They expected her to take permission for her fashion, travels, and other ambitions. Secrets were also not allowed.

In terms of religion, she must follow their customs and worship the gods of their family, avoiding her family idols.

There were points about being polite, family-oriented, and having no financial burdens when marrying them. They explicitly mentioned that no public displays of affection should be initiated by the women, they should learn their language, and fit into their culture.

The list continues with various interesting observations regarding the expectations of flexibility in marriage, satisfaction in romance, rituals, and proper representation of family.

Lastly, they emphasized that after marriage, the husband’s needs come first. The wife should prioritize the husband’s health, and all finances should be managed jointly but with permission.

These were the 37 requirements that our Indian men have for women. What do you think about this list? Silly, normal, acceptable, or absolute nonsense?

I’d like to know your thoughts. Special thanks to the guys who opened up and shared with me all this. Let’s see what others have to say—females will definitely have a lot to say about this list too.

Is this just an Indian perspective, or do other religions and nationalities share similar views? Good, bad, ugly—let me know your thoughts in the comments below. This is me signing off. Take care!

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