Marriage SHOCKER 10 Things Your Wife Will Stop Doing!

Here are some key takeaways from the video:

• The video discusses the 10 things wives may stop doing in a marriage.
• The speaker reflects on his own 20-year marriage and two-and-a-half years of being single.
• He emphasizes the importance of understanding these changes, especially number six, which he claims is pivotal.
• The speaker encourages viewers to subscribe for daily dating advice tailored for older men.
• The content uncovers the subtle shifts in a marriage, urging those considering marriage to think carefully.

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If you're married or you're thinking of married, then this video is for you. Because in this video, I'm going to be talking about the 10 things that your wife will stop doing or has stopped doing in your marriage.

And look, I was married for 20 years, and I've been single for two and a half years. The last two and a half years have given me time to reflect back on my marriage. One of the reasons why I wanted to create this YouTube channel is to share with all of you from a guy, an older guy who not only has been married, but is also dating and is single.

My perspective on the things that have worked and have not worked is here for you to see. So keep watching because number six is by far the most important one of all of these, because it leads to all these other things, and that also happened to me.

So if you're new to my channel, welcome. My name is Kane. I'm the Silver Bachelor. This channel is 100% dedicated to dating advice for older guys. If you haven't subscribed, hit the subscribe button and a notification button because I'm trying to put out a video every day.

All right, this is going to be a bit of a longer video because I have these 10 things, right? But these are really important. As I said, stick around to number six because six is exactly what happened to me. It's so subtle and sneaky that you don't even expect it.

And like I said, if you're already married, maybe you can identify with these things; if you're thinking of getting married, oh man, this video, seriously, when you hear these 10 things, it might actually change your mind on getting married.

Okay? So number one is fun. They stop having fun, right? They give excuses like, "I'm tired. It's time to grow up and be responsible." At the end of the day, the only reason why they stop having fun is because it's out of control. They don't have control over that.

So that's number one. Number two, this happens, man, is the appearance. They stop being feminine. They stop wearing the makeup they used to wear. They stop wearing the heels that you used to love. They stop dressing all sexy, smelling good, taking care of their basic grooming, right?

Things just start to go off a cliff. This totally happened with me in my marriage. And you know why? They might say, "Oh, it's too much effort," or "I'm too busy," blah, blah, blah. But at the end of the day, it's because they ultimately want to avoid having sex with you.

Because if they look amazing, they look sexy, you're going to want to have sex with them, and they don't want to have sex with you.

All right? So number three is they stop being nice. They start gaslighting you, they start having resentment, and they're in camp victim, right? They did all these things to win you over for you to get married, and now they're not happy.

70% of all divorces are filed by women. After five years of being in the marriage, the desire of the woman for her husband drops off a cliff. And nobody can understand why. A whole bunch of studies have been done on this, and nobody understands why.

It's not the kids, it's not financial, it's not because she gained weight, none of this stuff. She just doesn't want to be with her husband anymore, right? So camp victim is a big part of this. They're blaming other people for things that they might be a little depressed about or unhappy about.

So number four is no independence. What do I mean by that? They start to say stuff like, "I gave this up for you. I don't do this anymore because of you." Again, camp victim.

Number five is, of course, sex. They stop having sex with you, and they have all these damn excuses like, "I'm tired. I don't like my body anymore," blah, blah, blah. They've gained weight, and it's all just to give you breadcrumbs to stick around so they'll have sex with you just enough to keep you around so you don't leave.

But number six, the most important thing, and this happened to me is the affection. No more affection.

In this category, the kissing changed. Guys, when the kissing changes, you are in grave danger. And what do I mean by the kissing changing? They're no longer kissing you with their tongue. It's a peck on the lips, a peck on the cheek.

Kissing, for whatever reason, is so intimate to women that when the kissing changes, you're in trouble. The affection is also gone. She's not giving you a massage like she used to, she's not holding your hand, she's not putting her hand on your knee.

And the whole reason is because she believes if she gives you affection, you're going to want to have sex. They ultimately don't want to have sex with you anymore.

At this point, you're probably wondering, "Silver Bachelor, like, what the fuck? Why are these women doing this?" The thing is, it's because they put on this act to get married, and then they realize, "Oh, this isn't actually what I really signed up for."

A lot of women will line up for marriage, but very few understand the job description. It says, if you're a wife, this is what it's supposed to be. They sign up for this thinking one thing, and then they actually get the job but don't want to be a wife.

They want to be married, but not a wife. So that's why number seven is no more shared activities or hobbies. Remember the time when you used to do all these things together?

Well, now she doesn't want to do those things. It's a bait and switch. She was willing to do all those things before when you were dating, but now that you're married, she's bored and pulling away.

All right, so that's number seven. Number eight, she's no longer fun and nice with your friends and family. Again, it was a facade at the beginning to win you over, but now that you're married, she expresses her dislike.

Number nine is no femininity. She's not being submissive. She starts wanting to take the lead. She wants to take the role and be this boss girl, frustrated with your leadership.

And then number 10, and this one hurts, is that she's no longer your best friend. Once upon a time, when you were dating and maybe early in your marriage, you were best friends. You could share anything with her, and she could share anything with you.

Over time, what happens is you're sharing your vulnerabilities, weaknesses, struggles, and maybe you're even being emotionally vulnerable with her. You've had moments where you cried because something happened to you.

And all this time, she's been seeing you as less and less of a man. At the end, she doesn't want to do all these hobbies she used to do with you. She doesn't love you the same way that she did. The shit tests happen, you're not having sex.

It's no longer this ride-or-die woman you met. Instead, she's just trying to find a way out.

I hate to be a Debbie Downer about this, but these are 10 real things that happen in almost all marriages. If you haven't been married, you know nothing about this. For those who have been married, yes, there are a few instances where things are not like this, few.

Most marriages, this is what it looks like, okay? One of the reasons why is that standards haven't been established at the beginning, boundaries haven't been established at the beginning. Most importantly, she hasn't realized that, wait a minute, you have options and you're willing to walk away at any moment.

It's crazy because women need to have this healthy fear in a relationship. Like, damn, this guy has options. He makes a ton of money, he's in great shape, and he's not going to put up with my bullshit, and he can walk away at any time.

That's why I encourage all of you guys before you get married to have a prenup. I didn't have a prenup in my marriage because we were both broke and had nothing at the time.

That's different. But if I were to remarry again, which I'm not sure about, there is a place for marriage and remarriage. If there were to be a marriage again, I would for sure have a prenup.

Then you both know, okay, if one of you walks away, this is what happens afterwards. So I just want to hear from you guys what you think about all of this. Most importantly, if you want me to do more videos on the challenges in marriages.

All right, we'll see you next time. Thanks for watching.