becoming social is easy, actually

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  • But this video is sponsored by Incogni.
  • Social media probably won't help you.
  • The solution is to let out instead of hiding it.
  • Just be as nice as you can and move on.
  • This is one of the most powerful methods.

But this video is sponsored by Incogni.

Reddit comments or to start a cornhole club. Social media also probably won't help you. LinkedIn is a dystopian simulation. Facebook only has people twice your age.

Which leaves Method 1: Filter out the boring people. The solution is to let out instead of hiding it. If you've ever been the filler friend, you might not think people care.

When they first meet you, they can understand Method 3: Be outside of your head. Have you ever been in a group setting? This is overthinking, also known as Peterson in the thumbnail.

Then you think about it. Then filter it. Then imagine yourself saying it. Then modify it and approve it. Just say them when you feel like you need to force it. You feel pressure; it's not the end of the world. Just be as nice as you can and move on.

And at this point, it's a numbers game. Method 5: Be the main character. The people who have the most friends ask simple questions about people's lives. Listen.

Method 6: Be a side character. Touching this part of the shoulder. Happy when they walk in the room, remember things about them. Method 7: Be the transparent friend. Regret from their childhood. Instead, because that's being transparent.

And someone you don't know that well. Now on to Method 8: The injury update. People love it. But usually when you ask, "How are you?" Everyone just says by default, "Good". Or if they're feeling daring, "Fine". That's been bothering them recently.

Number 9: The Group Chat. This is for you. A group chat, that way you get everyone's number. Method 10: Do them a favor. It's often said, or maybe you're just nice to them. That's probably a good potential friend.

Method 11: Ask them for a favor. "Could you tell me where this place is?" "Could you watch my stuff for a minute?" That's just networking. Method 12: Pickup Line. This is a method I personally use if I'm in a group of strangers.

Method 13: The Iso-Play. A side conversation with them. Make up some excuse. Method 14: Act like you're already friends. There's a saying that goes, as soon as you meet them.

You're playing fighting with each other. This is one of the most powerful methods. But as always, be careful. Method 15: The Activity Buddy. When you meet someone, ask them something. Then offer to do that thing with them.

And it works on everyone. Now, you might be wondering about the time it takes. In which case, you'd have to spend hours doing this.

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