The Sitting Duck: 15 Feminine Ways to Protect Your Feminine from Predators!

• Chloe addresses the importance of physical safety for women.
• Femininity is not an invitation for male predation.
• 15 strategies for women to remain feminine while ensuring their safety.

Hey everyone, Chloe here and welcome back to my channel! And if you are new here, ladies and lurkers, welcome!

So, today's video is a highly highly requested one, and this video is all about physical safety and keeping yourself fully protected while dwelling in your feminine. Because many of you who are listening and ear-hustling often equate or associate femininity, or being feminine, or feminine energy with an invitation to be violated by men, and that simply is not true.

Becoming a feminine woman who puts herself on a pedestal has nothing to do with inviting a predator to your doorstep. However, a feminine woman can often be perceived as a weak target by both predatory men and women. We as women should always have a strategic plan in place to make our mental, emotional, and physical safety a priority.

Unfortunately, like I just mentioned, both men and women are capable of being predatory. Predators—and not too many people are going to tell you this—are a simple fact of life. And although women are much more capable of being emotionally and psychologically violent, men are more inclined to be physically stalkerish and predatory. Predatory men are much more likely to exploit, violate, encroach upon, and feel entitled to a woman's physical and personal space.

But ladies, dwelling in your feminine is not an invitation to a man to violate or harass you. This video will especially ring true for women living in very poor neighborhoods and messed up zip codes, the ghetto. And this video is for women living in environments that are rife with dysfunction. Learning how to physically protect yourself will also be very important for women who live in highly toxic environments along with predatory relatives.

Here are my 15 feminine strategies on how to remain in your feminine while protecting yourself:

15. Purchase some mace. Ladies, buy some mace and put it on your key ring. If you're going to be walking alone late at night, put it in your pocket.

16. Get a gun. Ladies, I am NOT a feminine woman who is against gun ownership, so check the gun laws in your state to see if it is well within your Second Amendment right to own a firearm.

17. Take a self-defense course. And never be afraid to kick a man where it hurts.

18. Never be afraid to get a restraining order. Ladies, every year thousands upon thousands of women are menaced, bullied, harassed, stalked, and followed by crazy, deranged, and abusive men. So ladies, never be afraid to call the police and never be afraid to sic the police on a dangerous and violent man. Abusive men are not entitled to protection.

19. Conduct a criminal background check on your possible suitor. Ladies, you'll be surprised at how many women fail to do a simple Google search on all the men that they are dating and sleeping with.

20. When you are dating, always tell a trusted friend or relative where you'll be going. Tell your mom, your sister, or your bestie where you are going to be because the last thing that you want is to come up missing without a trace.

21. When out on a date, never leave your drink unattended. Unfortunately, there are many men out there who are more than willing to spike your drink and drug you so that they can have their sick way with you. So, protect your drink and if you leave your drink unattended, have him order you another one.

22. When you are sitting inside of your car, always lock your doors. Ladies, when we are on the phone, being chatty Cathy's and/or texting, we often forget to lock our doors. Think about your safety when you are in your car alone.

23. Trust your gut and instincts. If you are getting a feeling of being unsafe, learn how to trust that feeling and walk away.

24. Stop oversharing with people you don't know or trust. Ladies, if you bought a new car, or a 70-inch television screen, or if you are going on vacation to St. Barts, you do not always need to flex your good news. Oversharing your good fortune unfortunately induces envy and will often make you a moving target. So stop flexing for the gram because haters are always lurking and watching.

25. Get a guard dog. If you live alone, consider getting a dog to feel more protected. Consider getting a family-friendly protective breed, and you can even consider getting a loud barking Chihuahua to ward off potential predators because Chihuahuas can be very, very intimidating.

26. Purchase a fireproof safe to keep your valuables and personal belongings away from your klepto relatives and your relatives who have sticky fingers.

27. Purchase a siren alarm keychain. These can be found on Amazon and the piercing sound of a siren can ward off attackers and save your life.

28. Use a video surveillance app to protect your home.

29. Be familiar with the local precinct in your neighborhood. Know the name of your local precinct captain and/or County Sheriff's and know them on a first-name basis.

So, that is all that I have to say on this for now. Being a feminine woman is not an invitation to be a sitting duck. Feminine women are well aware of the dangers that come with presenting themselves in the fullness of their feminine, and they come up with a plan so that they don't have to fully dwell in their masculine to feel protected.

So now it's your turn. Have you ever been afraid of being violated or attacked for becoming a feminine woman? What are some other ways that you have learned to protect yourself as a feminine woman? Share your thoughts about this video, and share your comments and your stories below. Stay tuned for more feminine videos to come, and I will catch up with you ladies and you burbers in the next one! [Music]