10 REASONS Why YOU Should NEVER Take Your Ex Back After Rebound or Monkey Branching

> **Key Points:**
> - Avoid taking back an ex who has been with someone else.
> - Understand the natural human feelings of rejection and obsession.
> - Acknowledge how betrayal undermines trust and self-worth.
> - Recognize patterns of behavior that can lead to repeated pain.
> - Focus on healing and personal growth instead of reconciliation.

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Why you should never, ever, ever take an ex back after they've been with someone else. Whether they're monkey branched on you, cheated on you, or rebounded into another person's arms right after you broke up, I don't care. It's all the same. The only variable, the only difference will be in the amount of pain that you will feel and the duration of time it will take you to heal from this shit. So please, please, please don't take them back after they've been with someone else.

In today's video, I'm going to cover 11 points. Why you should never take them back. Never. And the reason that I'm making this video is because I still get emails from you guys that your ex monkey branched and you want them back. So listen, I understand why you have this urge.

I'm going to explain it also in today's video. That's normal and natural that you feel this way towards them, that you still want them because they rejected you. And rejection breeds obsession. In old times when we got rejected from the tribe, when we were tribesmen, rejection meant death. So we still have this part of our brain, the things that we're gonna die because they rejected us.

But we are living in the 21st century, you guys. This is not ancient times. Welcome to the motherfucker modern world. So let's adjust and let's adapt and let's move on. In today's video, like I already said, I'm gonna help you to move on with this.

Just, just let, just fuck him. Fuck him. And for those of you who observed on my iPad, the title is fuck them. I'm so pissed when I hear you guys that you want them back and you actually say I don't care. I do care because I know what is in store for you if you're getting back.

Let's dive in before a second before. I'm coach Pa Goldman, your relationship and breakup coach. If this is the first time you see me, you le. You le it the really you landnded on really loaded, loaded topic. So embrace yourself because I'm known for no bullshit coaching.

I will tell you what you need to hear to heal, not what you want to hear to pay me. And let me tell you, telling you not to take your ex back after they've been with someone else. This is not good business because you have no idea, or maybe you do, how much money coaches make by telling you you can get your ex back after you are you're being broken up with, cheated on, whatever.

The only thing you want to breathe is them. And they play with your heart. I really urge you guys to pay close notice to this. Don't let people fool you and tell you, yeah, yeah, yeah, you can have a really good relationship with your ex after they cheat on you, cheat on you. You can't. You can't.

The only way that I will allow you to get your ex back is only if you and them were with no one else. Because when you will come back, the reconciliation will be healthy. You're going to understand in the 11 points that I'm going to share with you today.

Number one, you will always resent him. Always, always resent them. So much resentment, so much hate is going to be in your heart for them. Let's say you're coming back in your mind. You are going to imagine them fucking someone else constantly. You will think that her or his mouth kissed other mouth. You're going to think about them having sex. You're going to think about...

I don't want to go graphic here because I'm going to get censored on YouTube. But you understand where I'm going with this. Because you feel it and you know that everything that they're doing, it kills you to think about it. What do you think will happen once you're getting back together? You think it's going to be a beautiful relationship and it's just going to completely forget about it.

You will not, you will not. You will never. You're incapable of forgetting this kind of stuff. It's not possible. And the only reason that you want them back is because you're anxious and insecure. 

Once we going to work on yourself. And this is what I'm doing with my clients. Working on their self-esteem, working on their self-confidence, working on their worth, increasing their worth to them. And then they're gonna show it everywhere they go. How grounded, centered, and beautiful they really are.

Because after your ex being with someone else, it's a slap in the face, it's a kick in the balls. It's really hard to even think about anything else and it diminishes your self-worth because you say to yourself this new person that they are with is better than me. And oh my God, when you see this new person, this is what really fucks with you. Really fucks you.

Because you look at this person that they are with and you said this piece of shit is better than me. And you are just going downhill from there. I know. I saw my ex's new boyfriend when they got together and I just felt so bad. I felt so bad because I said, if this piece of shit is better than me, what the fuck am I? Who the fuck am I?

You're just starting to go to really dark places in your mind. So your resentment. Listen, no. And what you're going to do, Usually what people do when they get their back after their monkey branch or rebounded or been with someone else, what do they do? I call it like revenge.

Fuck. This is all there is to it. This is all there is to it. Just do it out of so much hate, not love and resentment, that it's why. Why? Your energy is sacred. Your energy as men, your seed is sacred. As a woman, your body is a temple. Fucking respect yourself. Come on.

I will not allow you to do that. Never in my life. I see you as my little brothers and sisters. Even some of you are older than me. I don't care. You are my brother and my sister. And I would never allow to do that. If you have this thought in your mind, hear my voice and say to yourself, coach Paz knows what he's talking about. He've been there, he's done that. He said, it's not going to work. Trust me, it's not going to work.

And if you need more reassurance, let's go. Let's dive deeper into this video. Number two is trust is broken. That's it. Trust is a fundamental component in a healthy relationship. Once trust is broken, especially through cheating or involving someone else, it's impossible to rebuild. 

It's impossible to rebuild. The foundation of your relationship has been compromised. It's